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Has anyone lost a disabled child I lost my son in November still can’t believe he is gone feel at a loss I cared for him 24/7 now I just sit for hours or stay in bed. I would love to hear from you how do you cope without your child.

In reply to Cilcil

Hi ive not posted on here before but I had to join when I saw your post I too lost my disabled son in January 2018 so I know exactly how you are feeling it is like torture every day like you we spent every day together we were best friends and now he's gone I too felt lost without him it took me six months before I could go out on my own or stay in on my own I just had panick attacks it hit me so hard.the house is empty without him, just walking past his empty bedroom every day upsets me so much. nobody knows how hard it is unlike us. it will be fourteen months tomorrow since he left us yes I'm doing better than I was its not easy I still cry for him every day but I've started some voluntary work just to get me out of the house,it's early days for you take it a day at a time, sorry if this is not much help take care x

I missed thankbu so much for you reply I felt like I was only one who cannot go into his bedroom without feeling so unsteady

In reply to Cilcil

You're not the only one,I go into my sons room and sit on his bed and talk to his ashes, I just miss him every minute of every day keep posting on here if it helps. I'm here if you need someone to talk to x

Thank you Lozzer how old was your. Child my son was not soppose to live to 20 every day was a challenge but I miss the challenge I wish I still see his face

In reply to Cilcil

Hi my son was 43 but he had learning difficulties so he was child like in many ways. he also had a curvature of the spine so he had a wheelchair if we went out shopping. he was the funniest caring loving son you could wish for our lives are empty without him .

Hi my son was wheelchair bound everyday they it away soon after that was painful .are u in England

In reply to Cilcil

Yes I'm in england where are you from .

Bexleyheath kent

Hi lozzer I do wish there was more replies from other parents who lost disabled children don’t you so we could change ideas and thoughts

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