Husband died on 23rd June

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Very sudden after leaving home. So unexpected. We are in shock and heartbroken.

Sorry for your loss Bev. You have come to the right place. Write how you are feeling on here anytime. They are a great bunch all travelling the same unwanted road with a great big hole in their heart. It is the most hellish journey but don’t do it alone we all understand what you’re going through and are at various stages in our grief journey. I’m 12 weeks into mine and the pain is still raw but roller coaster. Sometimes you’ll feel ok then the monster called grief decides to waken again and you can hardly breathe. I think you will get longer spells of peace as time goes on. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do and don’t make hasty decisions. There is free counselling available on here too. I am so sorry I can’t take your pain away but I can listen anytime you need as will the others. Love and hugs Kate xx

Hi Bev
Welcome to the club we find ourselves in. My husband died on 10 April after only being diagnosed 3 weeks earlier with pancreatic cancer which had spread to his liver. His death was such a shock and has been devastating. As Katie has said this forum has been so helpful and supportive and has helped me realise I’m not alone and that how I feel emotionally and physically is this horrible thing called ‘grief’.
It’s not going to be much help to you but it does get easier. I can now manage about 3_4 days before the tide comes in and I need to have a good cry and shut myself away. I find it’s like a release and I’m then able to get through the next few days.
My advice is take your time, let the tears flow if you need to and be kind to yourself. I found I had to make some big decisions quite soon which were unexpected but counselling through the hospice has helped me with these.
Take care and we are all here for each other.
Big hugs x

Hi, thank you so much for your advice and words.
So sorry for your loss.
I am in a auto mode I feel.
John was missing 36hrs then his body recovered. Ongoing report as to how he died.
Our world is shattered.

Bev x

Thank you Katie ,
Wise words from you.
So very recently gone, 23rd June.
I will be thankfully for and support and advice xx

I can’t imagine the devestation this must be causing u, it’s bad enough going thru this under normal circumstances.
I hope being on here can support u a little and bring some comfort.
Big hugs x

I can’t imagine the devestation this must be causing u, it’s bad enough going thru this under normal circumstances.
I hope being on here can support u a little and bring some comfort.
Big hugs x

Thank you so much x

I can’t imagine the devestation this must be causing u, it’s bad enough going thru this under normal circumstances.
I hope being on here can support u a little and bring some comfort.
Big hugs x

Thank you.
It is a living nightmare.

Bev x

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